So I got it working.....it turns out it was never broken. What's broken is the move axis>extruder function that doesn't actually operate the extruder. It works fine on x, y, z but not the extruder.
The new problem though, that I'm pretty angry about is the new extruder melted itself. It melted because I assembled the hot end incorrectly, but in my defense it didn't come with any instructions of any kind and by the time I realized something was wrong it was too late
Hopefully it will be printing on Saturday when the new new extruder arrives.